who feels bored for this christmas or for this end of year??
well ,i won’t be suprised if people answered : yes.
This year could have been the same for me,I remember for the previous ones i had,they were quite boring and not worth celebrating.
one of the main reasons should be because i was expecting people to come to me to cheer me up or to make up a plan involving me,i didnt really made the step of doing something for them,how selfish i was!!!!
for christmas this year(2008 ) i decided that i wont wait for them anymore,but i would be the one making up a plan for them,to show them mine and God’s love for them, and also that i would be the one to cheer them up :p
What can i offer to them if i dont have money/time to buy gift for them??
Well i just tried a new method which is to write a wish gift list for them ,with a word of appreciation for what they have done for me during this year,to thank them for bringing joy to me this year,to thank them for helping me in overcoming the life challenges that God has put in our lives.
HOW important are these words of encouragement???
well we take so many good/useful things for granted in our lives,but we forget to be thankful to those who contributed their effort ,those who has shown consideration to make it for my good.if it’s hard to be thankful t everyday well ,at least ,lets do it for christmas :p
what i like with the wish gift list ?
there were times when i feel like giving someone a gift but then,when i saw that it was beyond my budget,i would just give up and end up being sad because i cannot afford such a thing,the thought and the effort were here,but the recipient has no clue about it.Here is a solution to this problem : a wish gift list
a wish gift list is much cheaper than a real gift,it can be given to anyone at almost no cost.You also tell the person you love the gift that he/she really deserves ,you can either write an email ,sms ,or tell them verbally.
someone whose love language is “receiving gift”,once told me : “its the thought that counts!!!”
dont let your thoughts go to waste!!! 
